Found Objects, Stolen Moments: A Love Letter to Beautiful Spaces
There's something about stepping into a completely different environment that immediately shifts something inside you. Not just the scenery or the temperature, but something deeper, the way you move through space, the way you notice light, the way beauty suddenly feels more accessible.
My recent journey through Mexico wasn't planned as a shopping trip or a photo expedition. It was meant to be slow travel, the kind where you follow what feels beautiful rather than what feels productive. But as always happens when you're moving through the world with open eyes, the most magical discoveries found us.
San Miguel de Allende: Where Time Moves Differently
Our return to San Miguel de Allende wasn't accidental, we'd been invited to a housewarming for what I can only describe as the most unique home I've ever encountered. There's nothing quite like experiencing a place through the eyes of locals who've built something extraordinary there.
We arrived on a day when the city's energy felt different. News had broken that morning about the death of a local cartel leader, and you could sense a certain tension in the air. But our driver, warm, knowledgeable, completely unfazed, made us feel immediately safe and cared for. It's remarkable how the right local connection can transform your entire experience of a place, especially during uncertain moments.
The days that followed unfolded with the perfect rhythm of visiting rather than touring. A women's event where I got to connect with San Miguel's creative community. A day pass at one of the high-end hotels, far beyond our overnight budget, but perfect for a luxurious pool day without the full splurge. These are the kinds of local secrets that make travel feel richer and more authentic.
I'd heard so much about the incredible pottery and art available in San Miguel, but I held back from buying, convinced that the real treasures were waiting for me in Oaxaca, the supposed art capital of Mexico.
There's something about environments like San Miguel that immediately slow your nervous system down. The architecture itself demands presence. Those thick walls, the courtyards designed for lingering, the way every doorway frames a little vignette of beauty, it all whispers: This is not a place for hurrying.
Oaxaca City: The Art of Slow Discovery (And the Hunt That Wasn't)
In Oaxaca, we fell into that lovely rhythm of wandering without agenda. The kind of travel where you turn down streets just because they look promising, where you linger in shops not because you need anything, but because the owner's passion for their craft is infectious.
It was here I found those gorgeous linen dresses, not through any strategic shopping mission, but through that beautiful accident of following what felt good. There's something about linen in Mexico that feels different than linen anywhere else. Maybe it's the way it moves in that warm, dry air, or how it seems to absorb the golden light and give it back softer.
And that little bag, the one that somehow captured everything I love about finding the perfect unexpected treasure. Handmade, with just the right amount of wear, carrying the energy of all the hands that shaped it. These aren't just accessories; they're little pieces of the experience itself.
But the pottery and art I'd been so eager to discover? Surprisingly elusive. Despite Oaxaca's reputation as Mexico's creative heart, I found myself swimming in tourist markets filled with mass-produced pieces, struggling to find my way to the authentic, curated art I was hunting for.
The hunt for exceptional Mexican pottery and art was turning into a lesson: you have to find your way out of the tourist zones and into the spaces where real collectors and curators shop. But where were those spaces?
Puebla: When Magic (Finally) Finds You
The answer started to reveal itself in Puebla. Following a tradition I'd started the year before, I'd booked a photographer through an Airbnb experience, one of those lovely discoveries where you find someone local who knows all the most photogenic corners of their city.
Sunday morning, we made our way to the weekly vintage market while the city was still waking up. There's something magical about arriving early, when vendors are just setting up their treasures for the day. Boxes being unpacked, tables being arranged, that quiet anticipation before the crowds arrive.
We had the space almost to ourselves, room to wander freely between stalls piled with treasures that have lived full lives. Vintage pottery, textiles with stories, objects that have been loved and used and cherished. The kind of unhurried browsing that becomes impossible once the market fills with people.
What unfolded was pure magic. Here I was, completely in my element among these beautiful finds, with a talented photographer capturing me in my natural habitat, lost in the hunt for gorgeous things, examining textures, getting genuinely excited over a particularly perfect piece. The early morning light was soft and golden, perfect for photographs, and the spacious market gave us room to move naturally without navigating crowds.
Then we moved through Puebla's historic streets, those stunning colonial facades providing the most incredible backdrops. My sweetheart and I, documented against weathered walls and beneath ornate doorways, both of us glowing with that particular joy that comes from moving slowly through beautiful spaces.
It felt like having our own personal paparazzi, but in the most celebratory way. Not staged or performative, but this genuine documentation of us being completely ourselves, me getting lost in vintage treasures, both of us marveling at architectural details, sharing that sweet intimacy that comes from discovering beauty together.
The photographer captured something I didn't even realize I craved, the feeling of being seen and celebrated for exactly who I am. The woman who gets genuinely excited about the patina on an old ceramic dish. The couple who bonds over shared appreciation for beautiful, well-made things. The way travel brings out our most joyful, present selves.
But it was actually back in Mexico City, at the San Ángel market, where my art hunt finally paid off. There it was, the carefully curated art scene I'd been searching for throughout the trip. Real pottery with character, artwork that felt authentic rather than manufactured for tourists. Finally, pieces that made me genuinely excited.
This became the revelation of the entire trip: the best Mexican art and pottery isn't necessarily where you expect to find it. Sometimes you have to hunt beyond the famous art towns and into the curated corners that locals know about. My hunt for pottery and art in Mexico continues, but now I know, you have to find your way out of the tourist markets and into the curated art zones.
What Different Environments Give Us
There's something profound about placing yourself in completely new environments, especially ones designed around beauty and craft and slower rhythms of life. It's not just about the change of scenery, it's about how different spaces allow different parts of yourself to emerge.
At home, I might rush past beautiful details in the urgency of daily life. But in those Mexican markets and colonial courtyards, I remembered how much I love the ritual of really seeing. Of moving slowly enough to notice how light changes throughout the day. Of having conversations with artisans about their process. Of bonding with my partner through shared appreciation of beautiful, well-made things.
These environments didn't just give me gorgeous photos and lovely finds (though I treasure both). They reminded me why I'm so passionate about the spaces we create and inhabit. How the right environment can shift your energy, open your creativity, help you access parts of yourself that get buried under the speed of regular life.
When we returned home, I found myself looking at our own spaces differently. Seeing them with the same fresh eyes I'd brought to those Mexican markets and courtyards. Noticing what supported the feeling I wanted to cultivate, what invited lingering, what made beauty feel accessible rather than precious.
That's the real gift of traveling slowly through beautiful places — not just the memories you collect, but the way you learn to see beauty everywhere, even in the familiar spaces you return to.
The vintage finds from this trip are scattered throughout our home now, each one carrying a little piece of that Mexican light and that feeling of discovery. But the real treasure was remembering how good it feels to move through the world with eyes wide open, ready to be surprised by beauty around every corner.
Me in my happy place!
Vintage shopping in any language is my specialty. Linen dresses at the top and bottom of this post by Cabrera Perez. Photos by Alan Yee. Head over to my Gallery for more photos from the trip.